Break up issues.. Anyone help?

I know most of you won't care to read this, but it's well worth the help. I'm having the hardest time coping with this break up because it was such a great relationship. Okay so, we started going and he really really liked me. It was going so strong, and we decided to even tell our parent's about each other, being as it is that meant coming out also.


Then, we had oral sex after one week, I know, really dumb of us. But I guess we just couldn't control ourselves. Everything was going fine, still. I went out to dinner with his family and to a movie. That went great too, he would text me all the time, which was every second of the day.


But then on Tuesday, we have oral sex again and he leaves for work. The next day, after school, he breaks up with me over the phone. I'm still bawling, and this happened four weeks ago... Why would this happen? Was it wrong of him to do that?


He says he was confused, and just stopped liking me, but you don't do that after having sex with someone... Is there anything I can do? How should I talk to him, since we're still friends and we share the same best friends..?Break up issues.. Anyone help?
There was some lust involved in this. Once a person gets what they are lusting after sometimes the attraction disappears. If you would have taken more time getting to know each other things could have gone differently. No it was not wrong for someone to stop seeing you if they no longer have an attraction towards you. Staying with someone that you don't want to be with is wrong. Now that you have had sex with each other the whole friendship thing is going to be difficult and it will be hard to be around the friends that you have together at the same time.*Break up issues.. Anyone help?
You had sex too early in the relationship.





Best of luck.





Love, Noey.


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Being serious and sex do not mix. They are 2 different things. Sex is wayyyyy different from love. Don't think that it's after love. It should come when you guys are in love and not lust. He probably just wanted to have sex with you. But maybe he'll realize what he lost and he'll come around. Only time will tell so just wait.