i read the additional information.
you are not going to like this:
neither of you is yet emotionally mature enough to make a commitment to a marriage. you ask questions that are guaranteed to lead to misunderstandings and the fact that you ask those questions shows that you are not secure enough to trust her.
then she teases and now torments you.
before you compound the mistake by saying sorry etc etc, you should see whether there is enough of a relationship left that might be salvaged and strengthened by counselling. a neutral third party would be the only one that can give you meaningful help.
and there is another thing to consider - most first marriages end in divorce or separation. i think you are smart enough to understand how that works.I broke up with my fiancee and i want her back so bad. How do i do it?
Seems like and old Friends episode. What ever you do, don't sleep with someone else. Don't request with or without you on the radio and just drink the fat.
Tell her you love her and you messed up.
Don`t forget the flowers :)
Good luck to you.
You've got a lot of work to do. Slowly and surely you have to win her back. Fight for her if that's what you want. Buy flowers, ask for forgiveness and understanding. It will take months to win her back and she won't come back that easily if she is smart.
If she was your fiance and this happened, I hate to be negative, but it will probably never work out... especially if she is talking to the guy that seems to have caused all the problems in the first place, right? That's a lot of weirdness going on there, good luck!
u kiss *** big time a buy her stuff that always seems to work
Ugh, you're probably going to make her life unbearable. Maybe you guys should take a break. Marriage is (supposed to be) forever. If you break up and get back together over everything I'm sure you just need to step back.
Sorry to say this, but she probably did and still does fancy him and if your relationship can't stand your fiancee talking to another man ,then neither of you are mature enough for marriage,I would be counting my lucky stars,and thinking that it is cheaper than a divorce next year.
If you want to try win her back then talk to her and tell her what a pill*%26amp;k you've been....but don't beg or plead or make excuses she might give you another chance.
Personally any man who balled me out for talking to another man would be long gone and if I was engaged and fancied someone else I would be seriously doubting you were *the One*
you were engaged and you blew up over nothing but a possibility? you arent ready to get married at all
to tell you the truth she was probably talking to him the whole time
well maybe you should of not got so angry with her and yelled at her.. just tell her how much you are sorry and what to be with her..
Apologize for your actions and tell her you weren't thinking clearly at the time.
You can't MAKE her take you back...she needs to WANT you back. Your issues of jealousy, doubt, and your temper need to be worked out before you start taking those steps to get her back because they will only be issues once again. She needs to see that you trust her even if you don't trust whoever it is she works with. If you don't trust her, then there's no need trying to get back together with her. It's going to take a 1,000 apologies to make up for the harsh words you said to her and the emotional trauma you put her through. You made her question your future together and those questions will be there until she sees that she can trust you with her heart.
Start off slowly with a phone call and/or some flowers. You'll have to gage how willing she is to speak to you and again, go slowly. Let her know that you realize how mistaken you were, that if your temper is an issue, you'll get help for it, that you didn't speak with kindness or compassion, that you want to prove to her that you're still in love with her.
If you need to listen to her, that make sure you have that eye contact, a cold beverage if you get parched, but do whatever it is that you have to do to make her realize that you hurt her.
ok so first you need to call her and dont sound despret just talk to her like a regular women. then once she starts talking to you again get your realashonship back together but take it slow. but make sure you tell her sorry
how stupid and insecure are u???? are u kidding me,, like u aint attractive to other gurls.... dnt u think jlo is hot or beyonce... or eva mendez ,, cmon on man,,,attractive means ****... ur stupid **** if u were my fiance and did this to me,,, hahaha u better blive i wouldnt take u back,,,, i hope she doesnt either..........................
well you have shown her that you dont trust her so she will prob be difficult to get back, maybe send some flowers (her favourite!) and send the message sorry. i love you and maybe please forgive me. send her a txt or 2 saying can we talk and get her to meet you. tell her you thought she would leave you and you were afraid and upset, and you over reacted. see if she will give you a second chance.
Good Luck
You need to be saying, ';How can I get her to see that I LOVE HER, and to take me back';
That is going to be a tough one because she is going to think that you are always going to be jealous. You need to just talk to her and tell her how you feel, some flowers would help too
Is it so she can cope with the break up or were you right?
buy her flowers explaine you were a jerk before it is too late!
deep down she still kares about you just let her know how you feel
the only way you should do anything in life... just be honest. Tell her how you feel and that you were stupid. It may not work but thats a part of life and learning from your mistakes. Believe me I know what you are going through though
she stil loves you..do the best you can to get her back..you can do it..try do the things that makes her happy and special..
You don't make her do anything ya control-freak. You have to make her want you back. You have to become. Irresistible. Find a way to let her know you love her and you can't live without her. Asking her to have a long sit-down talk with you might be the best way. Also, If she doesn't want to, you could always go serenade her outside her bedroom window. If that doesn't make her realize... accept it, you lost.
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