Coping with a break up help!?

My boyfriend of over a year and i broke up about three months ago and he has started ';talking to'; this sophomore girl in high school. We are seniors in high school. I'm heart broken that he has moved on so quickly to her. All of our friends and church leaders keep telling him he is being stupid for moving on too fast; especially to a much younger girl. They all gave him crap for the longest time and he knew what he was doing was worng, he just never did anything about it. Well, supposedly, he recently talked to her and stated that they should strictly just be friends. At this point, as the girl, wouldn't you kind of like, back off? or feel a little awkward. guess not. they went to prom together, as ';friends'; and after prom that night, he texted her saying ';thank you so much for tonight! i had so much with. i miss you so much already though :['; is that really just friends? i'm falling apart. how can he just drop me in an instant %26amp; pick up someone %26amp; be like that with her? please help :/Coping with a break up help!?
When I was in High school it wasn't about relationships, it was about getting laid. At this time in a young males life his hormones are out of control. they are sooo strong it is hard to think clearly letting the member do the thinking. You are still young believe me it might not be wise to settle down. you'll wake up a couple years later and realize you didnt have fun in you're prime years. Go have some funCoping with a break up help!?
go out and mess around with one of his friends,preferably the one friend that he likes least out of all of his buddies.


this will hurt him and make you feel better at the same time.


after that just deal with it.


life is full of loss but it is also full of gain,sometimes at the same time.


but he didnt respect your feelings and knew full well he was hurting you,so a little vengeance never killed anybody.


hook up with one of his fiends.it will do the trick.
the break up maybe caused him to feel lonely and he probably could not cope with all the emotional stress and had to find comfort in someone else cause he wouldnt turn to you.... he may not have moved on but he does not want to show it and looking miserable would not help his situation....
Sorry to say that these things do happen and you will realise this more as you get older. We all go through breakups and it feels like, at times, you just want to die.





At one point he loved you, but if it ended, it ended for a reason. Just cherish those memories. You'll find love again.
eh, you just have to wait and see what happens. if he still wants you back, you have to let him play out his little fling before he gets his head back in order. guys get just as messed up (or more) than we do about this stuff, and this might b his way of coping. Hang in there!
love hurt but i hate to be the one to tell you it don't take some men long to move on for some reason they can do one girl and go to another one just like that mean world but life goes on and i think you should find you a friend
how is it that you know what he texted her?





get over him. if he has gotten over you already its a done deal. sorry. just remember that there is a guy out there for you, who wouldn't do what he did given the same situation.
Trust me, the right person will come along... You have your whole life ahead of you so don't let it get to you as hard as it is...There are many other ppl out there once you get out of HS you will see....Just keep your head up high!!
Um..I see. No, that doesn't sound like they are just friends. Maybe he hasn't really moved on, maybe he is just with her to try to move on. Or maybe he has moved on, I'm not sure.
its 3 months not 3 minutes ur over reacting
rebound thats what she is its ok guys can be such jerks at times
its called life..some people r like that....move on..
I'm sorry... that's really terrible... Sometimes guys just don't think... Not all guys are this way, so don't get too upset. There are better men out there.





I know you're going through a really rough time but the thing to do now is stay positive and do your best to move on as well. You don't have to take it as fast as he did, but starting to think about other men may help you get over this guy.





You could also try picking up a book, ';30 Days to Getting Over the Dork You Used To Call Your Boyfriend.'; The name sounds goofy, but the book really does have some helpful tips in there.





I hope everything works out for you, I'm sure it will. Keep your head up. :)
People are being mean. Three months is too fast to move on like he seems to be doing. Honestly, I think he's trying to fill the big hole he now has in his life without you. Yes, maybe it was time to break up, but he hasn't moved on. He's acting like that because he feels like he needs to find a replacement. She's younger, too - that's perfect ';replacement'; material. Don't worry - he hasn't moved on so quickly; he's just trying to adjust by doing something to keep his mind off you and your situation. Plus, if he really told her he wanted just to be friends and then he's sending her texts like that, he's stringing her along. He's not serious about her - she's just a pawn. Hang in there - time is all that heals things like this. You'll be OK, I promise.
Three months is actually not that short a time period. It's a quarter of a year. He moved on, and although you may wish it was different, it's time for you to move on too. Spend time with friends, go out, make yourself feel pretty, get a manicure, meet new guys. Get involved in activities you never thought you'd try. Just enjoy yourself and stop worrying about him. You guys broke up. You no longer have to worry about him. Enjoy being single, it really does have its good points, even if you still need to get rid of the lonely feeling. Rely on your friends to help you out. That's whay girlfriends are for. Good luck!
im going through the same EXACT thing right now. my girlfriend of over a year broke up with my last night at 3am. except she broke up with me, because i caught her lying. doesn't make sense, yeh? she tells me to move on. i can't. it's not that easy. it's hard knowing that now she has the chance to go and just pick up a guy or look at another guy, simply the same way she looks at me. but all you have to do is be strong, have hope, and have faith. you need to keep your head up. you need to keep your mind off of him. you need to distract yourself from any part of him. unless you find yourself needing to get back with him. in that case, give him a talk. for being with someone over a year, he's not over you. don't even think that. your still number 1 in his thoughts. your still the last girl he thinks about before bed. he stated they were only friends.. just remain calm. everything happens for a reason, and usually for the better.