Friday, August 20, 2010

How to cope with your boyfriend dating another girl as a game?

So last night my boyfriend and i were in a call and him and his best friend decided that they wanted to play around with a girls and make a reputation. They told me that each girl has to be at least 3 days, 3 kisses. Then when they break up the other of the 2 will ask the same girl out. At first i though they wouldnt pull through with it since well... HE'S MY BOYFRIEND! he told me that we should tell anyone in school that we're together but we're officially going out. i didnt want to loose him so i said ';yea sure, i wouldnt mind, just a game right?'; and he said ';yea, but ur my real girlfriend.'; so we've been denying our relationship to every person in our school. well except the guy who he's playing the game with. they both didnt want me to get involved. i acted cool with it but now my emotions r tearing my inside out... also because they dont want me to tell any other girl about it... so now im stuck here, non expressed, needing someone to talk to. HELP MEHow to cope with your boyfriend dating another girl as a game?
DUMP HIM! He is NOT your boyfriend. Sorry if that's hard to hear but face the facts. He doesn't want anyone at your school to know you're together and he's playing a ';game'; with his friend to try and get a reputation.





Do you really want to be with this jerk?





If this guy cared about you, he wouldn't want to get a reputation and he would want people to know that the two of you were together.





Seriously, please dump this loser! You deserve SO much better than that.How to cope with your boyfriend dating another girl as a game?
Way way way too much emotion. That is very unattractive. Take it easy. You're not married, you're not even engaged. You're both just silly little players in a big game. Stop with the emotion, focus on your own personal success, and don't look for it through another human being, that's stupid.
Be honest with him and if he takes your feelings into consideration and ends this, cool, but if he won't, he's really messed up and you should reconsider dating him. He should already be on thin ice for doing this at all.

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