Has anyone gone out with their best friend, broke up and is now both painfully not speaking ? How do you cope?

it's like losing your best friend And boyfriend the day u break up....is it wise to not go out with your best friend? i think i learned the lesson in a hard wayHas anyone gone out with their best friend, broke up and is now both painfully not speaking ? How do you cope?
in a way its not wise then in a way if it works out it is wise.... what im saying is that when you 2 got together you didnt have to play the whole shy thing... you already knew eachother and eachothers parents so there goes the whole awkwardness of meeting the parents for the first time....you already knew what eachothers likes and dislike.... and everything so that is the advantages of dating your best-friend.... the disadvantages are when you break up its not only weird on you but its weird on the friends that you both share....your friends want to be on your side but also want to be on his side.... when me and my ex broke up (we were best friends prior) i gave it 2 months then just gave him a call to see how he was doing.... that was a year ago now and once again we are good friends again.... just remeber the good time you guys had and forget about the reasons you broke up..... sometimes its better off to forgive and forget then loose a friend over it....so what im saying is just give it some time things will only get better....best of luckHas anyone gone out with their best friend, broke up and is now both painfully not speaking ? How do you cope?
I've been in this really recently actually. Haha, ironic. But anyways to solve it is really up to you. You have to call her/him and just talk to him like you used to. OR if you think/feel it is right. Talk about why ya'll went out and broke up. It feels really weird going out w/ ur best friend. Like ur brother/sister and its just to weird for me. IDK if tht is ya'll broke up....but i explained it, and now we're bak the way we were
I had the same problem. I was in a relationship for 7 years then one day bam, it all went downhill. You are experiencing the same feeling as grief. You have lost your best friend, your lover but most importantly your confidence.


This is where your friends come into place. Give them a call, go and see them, its important to keep busy. I know its hard but I was in therapy for 2 sessions and that was 2 years ago and its a life altering change. Go to the movies and if you have a need to call him, call your friends as well.
Drugs, alcohol, ammunition and porn how else?
never date a better friend than lover. you both lose in the end.
yes, it totally sucks. i dated my best friend for 4 years and we hung out for a while after we broke up, but then he realized that there was no chance of us really getting back together, he stopped talking to me all together, except for the txt for happy bday and merry xmas. I didnt want to break up cause i knew everything would change and be like this, i felt like he was the only person that ever understood me. sucks big butts :(
distract yourself
No one ever gets to old to learn a lesson. Shows you a good person, at least you admit it. Best friends ending up being bf/gf, can ruin a good friendship, because it goes from best friends with no ties, to intimate, can ruin everything. I know you will be fine, you have good common sense, you have learn a lesson in life.