Friday, August 20, 2010

How many times have you broken up with someone till you found the right one?

I had been married for 30 years. Since i was 20. So i never really had a relationship except with my husband who i was faithful to. He wasn't. I finally left and i found another man who i was pleased with till the shite started hitting the fan and the truth of his lies were revealed. I have broken up with him and am feeling really, really, really bad, sad, mad and kinda hopeless. I go around crying off and on. waves of pain. I loved this man you see and he professed his love so tenderly to me and with me. Then i had to break up for he broke the trust factor too many times. He was physically violent to me too which i admit i tolerated for too long. HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU BEEN WITH AND BROKEN UP WITH SOMEONE TILL YOU FOUND THE RIGHT MATCH WITH SOMEONE YOU COULD TRUST, WAS GOOD AND LASTING HEALTHY LOVE? HOW DID YOU COPE AFTER EACH BREAK UP WITHOUT LOSING HOPE FOR THE FUTURE? THANKS.How many times have you broken up with someone till you found the right one?
Im 29.... iv had 3 serious relationships....i left 2 of them for cheating/and other things.. the other past away.. iv dated allot of other men...dont know how many but allot...if they arent what im looking for i end things with in weeks sometimes days! You will find someone for you... you just have to be positive and strong!





God wants us to be happy! He will bring that person into your life...He usually does it when your not worrying about itHow many times have you broken up with someone till you found the right one?
I have dated alot of women but you move on and try again but only when you are ready. When you live on your own and find independence and happiness within yourself then you are ready to find someone to share that happiness with and only because you want to not because you need to on a emotional or financial level. It takes time and that is all we have in this world so don't waste anytime by dating losers take your time and don't rush into things.
depends.





there's often two sides to a coin.





the bad said and the good side. What's good about having had a lot of relationship exp is just that and you know what to look for and what not to look for next time.





but it's really hard. Some people are just lucky and get with the first person. But I think it's safe to say that most have experienced a break up whether by fault of their own or not.

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