Friday, August 20, 2010

Just not coping with a break up?

i am so upset right now i cant even do anything... i gave my all to the girl i thought was the love of my life and she promised me the world.. now shes left me for some other skanky chick and i just cant deal with it.. i know i deserve better and should let it go but shes all i can think about, i just love her so much.. how do i stop feeling this way? im not suicidal but i seriously wouldnt care if i died right now.. why does love hurt so much?Just not coping with a break up?
I'm really sorry that you're hurting so much right now. And you will hurt from a break up, you cared about her, loved her and she didn't fully return that love. It won't help you now, but remember this, time truly does heal all wounds. Try to find something new right now to invest yourself %26amp; your time in to distract you. A new hobby, and old pasttime that maybe you stopped when you were with your ex. It sounds trite, but anything to help you keep your mind off of your ex, to help give you some distance to start healing yourself. Good luck to you.Just not coping with a break up?
Well honey you will be ok. I have been in that situation before. Did she treat you with respect or did she treat you like crap for most of the relationship? If that's the case then just let it go. It sucks and it's hard but you will be fine and someone will come into your life that loves you more than anything. You just have to go through it. Hang out with friends, laugh and go meet people. Keep yourself busy at work, you are going to soon realize that she was a loser and you will be mad at yourself for letting her control your life but the good thing is that you will know and be able to grow from it.





She's gonna come calling you but don't give it because she will still be the same person that you once knew no matter what BS she tells you. Just continue to think about how you were tooo good for her anyway and now you are FREE to be yourself again without stressing and crying and being treated like crap. You have your life back!! Be happy about that! :)
I think you are following the right course - you would naturally be sad when a relationship you valued is over....if you were not feeling this way it would indicate you did not care very much. Only time will help erase these feelings - but in some ways you will never be over it completely.
We've all been there.It's gut-wrenching,sickening %26amp; it feels all consuming %26amp; life-stopping but,trust me,in time it will pass-it will get easier over time until it doesn't hurt at all to think about her.Then one day you'll meet someone new %26amp; completely move on.





Let the skank keep the cheat.You should want better than that for yourself .
i understand how you feel. if you didnt hurt so much, then you wouldnt know how good it feels when you are loved. it takes time. has happend to me plenty of times. but ive realised there are many other better girls out there. keep your chinn up !!! = )
Don't worry. It feels like forever now, but eventually it'll pass. I went through the same thing back in February, but I figured out that she wasn't worth it. You'll move on in your own time. Don't rush things, take your time to be sad.
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i am seriously in the same place as you right now i havent quit crying in 3days


only i got broken up with b/c being gay is a sin?


love sux just promise urself not to ever let it happen again thats what helps me

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