Not coping well with this break up but he was using me...?

we had only been going out for a few months and we sort of mutally decided to end the realtionship. it wasn't working because he wasn't putting much effort into it.


i told him i wasn't just going to be there for him to pick up and put down when he wants. i said it was all or nothing... he chose nothing :( i think he was a bit upset because he did say he would be 'gutted' if it ended completely but that he was lazy (he actually admitted that himself!!!!!!) gaaaaaahh!


but now i really miss him. but i don't want to be used. i was beginning to feel a bit stupid becuase one minute he seemed to really like me and the next he just didn't bother. i was starting to look like a bit of a mug. how do i get over him??! :(Not coping well with this break up but he was using me...?
gosh!. what a sory excuse for a guy! pleassse dont give him the time of day, he is soooo NOT worth it!!.


whena guy doesntwant to put forth the effort to make a relationship work, then screw them.. your not going to wait on him nor are you going to waste your thoughts on him!Not coping well with this break up but he was using me...?
Time, that's what will eventually help you forget. Dont rush into any relationships, wait, instead just go out with your friends and family to fill the void of not being in a relationship. Eventually you'll feel better especially when you'll surround yourself with supportive people and use your time in a constructive manner. Good luck.