Not coping with this break up even though he was really messing me around...?

we had only been going out for a few months and we sort of mutally decided to end the realtionship. it wasn't working because he wasn't putting much effort into it.


i told him i wasn't just going to be there for him to pick up and put down whenever he wants. i said it was all or nothing... he chose nothing :( i think he was a bit upset because before he did say he would be 'gutted' if it ended completely but that he was lazy (he actually admitted that himself!!!!!!) gaaaaaahh!


but now i really miss him. but i don't want to be used. i was beginning to feel a bit stupid becuase one minute he seemed to really like me and the next he just didn't bother. i was starting to look like a bit of a mug. how do i get over him??! :( im feel ugly, lonely, depressed and like i will never be happy again :(Not coping with this break up even though he was really messing me around...?
Okay, there's a trick that helps you get over him in seven days.


Day one: cry, just cry.


Day 2: Vent to your friends. Tell them all you did wrong and he did wrong. They'll stop you from blaming yourself.


Day 3: Clean out your house. throw away all the things that remind you of him. Pictures, cards, notes, his stuff he left at your house etc.


Day 4: Stop stalking him. quit looking at his face book/myspace profile because you probably have been! order yourself not to keep on trying to find out how he's doing and coping with the breakup.


Day 5: Get real. start thinking about all the ways he was wrong for you and all the bad things about him, in your case, he was lazy, he didn't put any effort into it. etc. etc. start to realize that he wasn't the right one for you.


Day 6: Do good. as corny as it sounds, do some charity work. it will take your mind off of him and will hep you to move on. plus, it's a good way to help yourself while helping others!


day 7: Flirt! start to play the field, date other guys go to a club, get some guy's numbers and get over him!Not coping with this break up even though he was really messing me around...?
just move ooon





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You know what is right but your heart wants something else- almost like its slow torture .


You are going to miss him. You will feel sad. Thats normal. You have to keep yourself busy. Dont surround yourself with things that remind you of him. Fact: you cant speed up this horrible feeling. but it DOES get better! easier in fact. You can only make this out when you are determined to realise that you ARE worth alot more. Dont deny yourself of something else. But being depressed etc you may be missing out on opportunities right under your nose.
Hey there!





i totally feel how you are feeling, its sucks doesnt it. i guess you went on some sort of break right?... coz atm thats what me and my bf are currently on a ''break'' :(.. and yeah i really want him back, i really want to show everything i have got coz i feel i have totally messed up, but then again thats what most guys do best they mess with our heads and are completely lazy. i began to think did my boyf really like me, he showed no passion whatsoever played on his game consoles all the time. well dont feel all them things babe, im trying not to now tbh. im sure you will be happy again, and will find someone special that deserves you and will like you for who you are and treat you how you would want to be treated. so hang on in there, if you think its woth it you can give it your best shot but believe you me, i dont know what to do with myself... Life sucks sometimes :-/.... Hope this was kinda helpful.





Best wishes x