I am having break with my girl friend.. i am in India and she is in US.. Can i sort issues over phone itself?

evrything was fine, until i gave her idea of going to US for further studyies.. from then on, the problems started, she became very busy , i was nt able to understand her situation, and the gap started increasing.. different places...differences.. we were nt able to sort out the issues.. evry time i try to convince her.. she becomes frustrated and angryt, switches of her phone.. and this continued for a while then , she decided not to continue, and she started finding reasons to leave me.. evry time i talk she gets frustrated.. its like when its night for her its day for me.. even she is doing part time, and she is very busy all the time.. i am mnot able to cope up.. and now we are almost having break up...we dnt speak , she has changed all her contact.. i dnt understand how people change, i have done so much for her , for her to go to US.. will she ever remeber wht and all i did for her , how can i resolve the issues, she will be coming to india only in december.. can i win her back.I am having break with my girl friend.. i am in India and she is in US.. Can i sort issues over phone itself?
Just leave her alone. For some reason she does not want to be with you. You are better off without her. She turns off her phone and does not talk to you properly. You are just wasting your time because she is trying to get away from you.


Maybe she just wants to focus on her studies and nothing else. She is an international student and the tuition is very expensive for an international student. If you want call her and tell her how you feel and talk about it. If she cares for you then she will tell you how she truly feels. And after that don't call her, wait a few days and then call her if she does not call you.I am having break with my girl friend.. i am in India and she is in US.. Can i sort issues over phone itself?
You need to realize whatever you did out of love should not be counted as an obligation. Secondly, just try working hard on a job and studying at the same time and then you will be able to judge her position better.





It is impossible to predict whether you will be able to win her back because only you two know the extent to which the difference have effected you and your feelings.





But definitely, when she comes over, be repentant. Don't act that she is wrong because though she is tired, she can't tolerate all the inconveniences you have caused her.





Tell her that you were afraid of losing her and wanted to be in touch with her. If possible, offer her that you want to go with her to US and work as well. See, if it works.
It sounds like you need to back-off and leave her alone for awhile -- and stay put until she contacts you first.





You are trying too hard.





Just stop it all. Let her contact you. She will, when she is ready.





Since you are chasing her - she depends on it - and she likes the chase.





Just stop it - until she is ready to listen.





If she never gets ready - then she wasn't wanting to anyway ... and she was probably trying to tell you something (without saying it out loud).
Probably not. She's learning more about herself, about what she wants, enjoying her freedom. You're back in India, same old stuff.


It'll probably not work out.
out of sight is out of mind


this girl has showed her true colour


ambitions have made her selfish


dont waste your life for her


it will pain but time will heel


time has come to break this relationship


you meet her and then break it


in that way you will have no regrets in life
Sometimes we need to accept certain things in harder way. May be she is tired of olden things and found a new way of leading life. It is natural for a person to love new place and new enjoyments in life. You too will do the same only. Now she is doing the same. She is feeling everthing new and different from what she had in her home country. Yeah, she has changed. She will be the same changed girl. So dont approach her with the same motive to woo her.





You have your own respect. Dont lose it. Let her enjoy and when she gets tired she will come back to you. If she does not, then its your better time.... leave her. The more you try to woo her the more she will reject you. So keep quite and dont approach her. She needs to get some lesson from life. She will return.
People grow. People change their mind. Give her space. If she comes back to you on her own, she is yours. If not, then better to know now. I understand you are heart broken, but you cannot make someone love you.
Yes u can win her back, but first stop harping 'I have done so much for her', forget what u have done, u can't buy love. Try to understand her situation, a lone girl, off to USA, a lot of cultural and time difference, different language and communication, no friends or confidantes, lack of sufficient money, she has to do a part time job %26amp; the boss is mostly american, and to top it all she gets a demanding bf from India, she wants a understanding and sympathetic bf, not someone who keeps on repeating 'I have done a lot for u to go to US, now u have changed adversely, etc. etc. Change your outlook and show more understanding and sympathy or u will loose this nice girl, and u have only yourself to blame.
The Major Problem Is She Cant See Expressions On Ur Face When Talking Through Phone





Still Call Her


Dont Talk A Lot


Just Say That U Care For Her


U Love Her


Say Take Care





say All This With Clear Decency





If She Really Loves U


She Will Understand That


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