I can't get over the break up of a 5 year relationship.?

my boyfriend of 5 years and I broke up and I am not able to cope with the loss.... we were planning to get married and have kids and we even tried to make babies.


he had dated other girls while we were together but they all went bad and he came back to me and every time I tried really hard to forgive him only to find out that he is cheating again.


we are on a long distance relationship and he is desperately looking for having a family and kids.


he is 42 ,divorced with 2 kids. I am 26,never married, no kids...


I am going mad thinking about how ignored everything we had and is dating a mexican girl.


funny thing is that they were fighting last week and he called to make sure I am still there for him..


how can I get over it? I am hopless.I can't get over the break up of a 5 year relationship.?
How can you get over what?? How can you not no he is a lire a serial cheater and is not good husband material. Your at an age where you think time is running out and you want to get married really bad. You should be counting your lucky stars that he doesn't won't to marry you in fact he is doing you a big favor by not marrying you. I know it hurts i remember very well just how much it hurts. My husband left me for 2 1/2 years you think it hurts when a boyfriend leaves you, well let me tell you that there is no comparison when it comes to a boyfriend verses a husband. You need to get over him and in order to do that you are going to have to change your phone and cell numbers if you don't do that then you don't want to get over him like he has gotten over you.Make no mistake here he has gotten over you that little phone call he made to you meant nothing to him but a sure thing booty call if and when he wants it. He has been married and has a family already so stop thinking that's what he wants because it isn't all he is after is to have as much sex with as many different women he can before he goes back to his first wife or before he finds someone else that is stupid enough to marry him. He is a player and always will be and is an open book and everyone can read him but you .I can't get over the break up of a 5 year relationship.?
its gonna be hard, but rebounds help. start dating again. make sure he knows your not gonna be there anymore. but be happy. you can't make the pain go away if you don't keep yourself busy.think about other guys. it'll make you happy. when other guys tell you that you deserve better they mean it. don't just sit there and think the pain is gonna go, you need some time out and have fun. look pretty and go dancing. no women is worth crying for a cheating guy. good luck.
You should be cheering that you got rid of him, what is wrong with you ? How can you love someone like that ? You are his safety net, he sleeps around, does whatever he wants and then when he is bored he's coming back to you because you're too weak and too stupid to leave him !!!
you deserve so much better than him. i wish you knew that for yourself. i think it sounded a little rude the way you wrote ';mexican girl'; if you spend time thinking who is better than who you will most likely have a bad self image. like your self better and you dump the bum.
Girl, Guys like that I see why females turn lesbian.


Time to show him he screwed up 1 to many times.


Forget about him, go out and have some fun.. meet someone that will show you how a man treats a girl. give in and let this man Rock your world
He's a cheater and a repeat offender. Why do you women even bother with men like that? Take some pride in yourself and find a man who'll love you the way you deserve to be loved...
How can you love someone who cheats on you? How can you want to be someone who doesn't love you and only wants to use you? How can you settle for a life with someone who has always treated you this way?





How do you get over him? You tell yourself you are a good person and you deserve a good man who will treat you with love and respect and you refuse to settle for anything less. Then you walk away and never look back. Start with changing your phone number so he can't call you anymore. Delete him from your life. That's the only way you can start a new life.
You know dear, I am really glad that you were not married to him in the 1st place.You deserve someone who will really take care of your feelings, whom you can trust, who will only have the heart for you.Someone who will respect you as a woman.





It may be tough but how do you expect this man to be faithful to you? How long do you want to be his 'spare-tyre'? Be kind to yourself.Find new activities, get new hobbies, join your buddies for outings,do charity works,change your lifestyle.Get him off your mind!Do a total annihilation!Time will heal you.Time will restore you.Let him go and move on.
You are not hopeless, you're just emotional right now. If you really want something different for yourself, you're going to have to stop thinking about him and start thinking about you, you already know the relationship is poison and means you no good in the long run, you'll never trust him and you'll always be looking for him to do something wrong, you need to sever all ties with him, I know it'll seem hard at first but time does heal and help you move on, start small by not excepting his calls or seeing him, you owe it to yourself to try and be happy without all his drama, stop limiting yourself, what one man only likes, another man will love. good luck
He is playing you like a fiddle....and you're allowing him to. Give you're head a shake. Why would you at 26 years old want to be involved with a divorced 42 year old with 2 kids? He's cheated on you....and still is. He's even calling to make sure you are still there for him while he's out doing other women and laughing behind your back because you are stupid enough to allow him to use you any way he wants. You need a brain transplant lady or someone to give you a good slap up the side of the head to wake you up!!