My fiance wants to break up the engagement and i am pregnant.How to cope with that?

My fiance told me yesterday he likes someone else he met one week ago in his work place.We had plans to get married after 2 months.Before he was saying that he was a sure wants to be a father and spend the rest of his life with me.Now he talks absolutely opposite.He told me he is very confused.He wants to break up the engagement .But he doesn't want to tell to the other person that he was engaged and especting a baby.He even wants me to terminate the pregnancy.He gave me like a reason that he is not happy with me anymore.But just one week ago he was telling me he loves me very much and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and our baby.We was together for 7 months and know each other for 3 years.Before 3 years we had a relationship for 4 months then we broke up.Now he returned in my life asking me for second chance and i gave it to him but he complitely mess my life.Help m e guys because i don't know what to do.My fiance wants to break up the engagement and i am pregnant.How to cope with that?
Your going to have this baby, and send him packing. Let him pay the child support.


To bad so sad for him that he met someone else and he has a baby on the way.


Him and the new chick he met probably won't last too long.


Honestly what kind of woman would want a man who would dump his fiance and their unborn baby after only knowing the person for a week. Any rational thinking woman would run as far away from him because they would be afraid he would treat them the same way.However don't take him back, or he will be meeting someone in the future and want to break up to go out with her.


Just be greatful your not married and don't have to get a divorce.


Best of luck to u and congrats on the baby.My fiance wants to break up the engagement and i am pregnant.How to cope with that?
Forget this Guy , he is a complete waste of time . I would recommend to terminate the pregnancy , if you are in time . However much you like the idea of having a baby , his baby ; you put yourself in a more difficult position . You face the difficulties of being a single parent and it is not every man who wants to be father to another man's baby .


Without a pregnancy and baby you can start life again with a clean slate . It is better to be married before you get pregnant .
He sounds way too flighty. Make your decision with regards to your pregnancy regardless of what he does, but as for accepting him back, you need to be sure that he is there because he loves you and he wants to raise a child and he wants to be there with you and is not there out of some misguided attempt to ';do the right thing'; because he feels guilty.
Let him call off the engagement!! He needs some professional help!! Pray for strength for you and your baby because you can make it!! Dont get an abortion, put his a** on child support and his new girlfriend will know about your baby when he goes to court!! HaHa!!
If he's gonna break your heart, then break his by telling this other woman that he's engaged and your expecting a baby.
decide yourself if you want to keep the baby or not,because this baby will never know his father.take care of yourself and the baby and get rid of this guy.best wishes
Wow im really sorry to hear about what he's doing, what a ****** he is for doing this to u..





As far as terminating the pregnancy that is something YOU, and YOU alone can decide, i personally am totally against terminating a pregnancy but that is only a choice u can make. And i think its pretty crappy of him to use abortion as a form of ';making his life easier with the new girl';





If i was you , id keep the baby even though i can tell u, he's going to be a crappy dad, he probably wont pay child support unless he's forced to and will be one of those dads that either leave and never turn back, or he will be a father that only wants to be a father when its convient to him. So this is going to put alot on you, but u can make it.. My suggestion to u, is to find his Social Security number and write it down and hide it.. ur going to need it in the future..





And i would show up at his job tomorrow wearing whatever makes u look the most pregnant, or even go buy a shirt that has baby on board with an arrow or something and id show up to his job tomorrow and let everyone know that ur his fiance and that your very much pregnant, if he's fixing to leave u why should u make it easy on him and his new girl friend , and if she knows nothing about u, maybe she should, so she can see what kind of guy she's about to be with one that leaves his pg gf in her time of need.. Or if thats not a possiblility id send him flowers with balloons with it to work, ';baby'; balloons.. congrats on the new baby, or its a boy , its a girl balloons, something that would catch the attention of every person in that office.





He's a snake in the grass and u deserve better and so does ur baby and i guarantee u will eventually find a man that will love u and this child , so dont let him get away with being a ******, give him hell and make him rue the day he ever messed with u..
He's trying to duck out of his responsibilities. Don't let him do it - at least, not completely. Let him go, but keep the baby. You and your child will make it just fine, and he'll be stuck with child support payments. You don't even have to let him have time with the baby, since he obviously doesn't want anything to do with it. And don't give him any second chances, because chances are good that he'll run away again when some other ';good thing'; comes along.
how could you possibly have gotten involved with this guy in the first place, you're in a real grind, gl maybe hell come around


dont terminate it youll regret it for the rest of your life!!!