Friday, August 20, 2010

Sould we break up for good or sort it out?

ive been dating my boyfriend a year and a half now. all we do is fight and agure all day long and i cant cope with it anymore. we have ended thing 3times but alway got back. i am turly in love with him and cant keep away but i cant take the fighting anymore!!! any tips on how to sort things??Sould we break up for good or sort it out?
Find out why you fight by talking. It could be that that is your way of showing affection or that you actually don't really like each other. Only way to find out: talk!Sould we break up for good or sort it out?
If you are happy with him and truly love him you should stay with him. However, it sounds as though your not. Sometimes people just drift apart. It sounds cruel but, everything comes to an end. Maybe it is time for you to move on. It doesn't sound as though you two get along and if I were you I'd leave him. It would be best for the both of you.
Well am not and expert in relationship but from what i now if you have already broke up 3times in the space of a yr n so and argue all the time what is the point i mean its not like its going to change this is what is going to be like for the rest of or future so if that what you want stay but other wise run for the hills lol
Tell him its really taking a toll on you and you REALLY want to make it work with him because you care about him. Let him know that if it continues, you can't stay with him. So he needs to put forth some efffort.. JUST AS YOU WILL, to help save your relationship.
if you two hang out very often, then try hanging out less. Don't go on a break. Just see each other like twice a week. If you see less of each other, they will be on your mind a lot more. This will heal your relationship hopefully.
confront him about it and explain to him that you really want to be with him but you can't stand the fighting any more. i don't know what the fights are about but you can try compromising about stuff so you both benefit.
What are you fighting over - money, independence, jealousy? Try and solve what you are in confrontation over, have regular chats and sit down and discuss issues calmly.
I think you should break up for good you may seem to be better as friends. staying in a relationship that you are not happy in is a bad idea.
You have to ask yourself if you can live like this with him for the rest of your life.


If you can`t then what is the purpose of staying with him?
Try this method,


Communicate with him while leaning back to back with him.


Most arguement started face to face emotions, where you and him can't stand it even for 1 second.
Maby it is for the best if you seperate, even if you get back like a couple of years later, you both just need a break, sort things out .





Good Luck Sweet ! x
I think you should explain to him exactly how you feel and sort things out that way :) x
Yuu Might love him but but maybe its for the best if you see other people.xxx
Jeez, just break up. Other guys want to do you too.
sounds aweful and im in the same thing (sorta) but its with my gf....so idk
how about relationship counselling?
you should burn his house down

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