Go out with me. I will treat you like a princess, I will give you all the support you need, and you will forget he even existed within two weeks.How could i cope up with a break-up from a relationship?
I agree.. keep busy... meet new people .. dont try and replace him because that will happen on its own.. but do things you did before he took your time and thoughts...dont ask about him and avoid him completely..
Get the book, ';It's called a break up because it's broken.'; Actually, I downloaded it on iTunes and it did wonders for me. They will be your break up buddies! Also, you need to get things closed up so you can do 2 to 3 weeks of absolutely no contact. And maybe watch ';The Mirror Has Two Faces'; with Barbra Streisand. Trust me on that.
time heals all wounds. keep busy.
well, aside from time heals all wounds.. tell yourself it is a blessing.. it means you will find a better and greater guy than him. It's really his loss and not yours. For you to support him financially would really show you what type of man you are loving. Besides, helping him out is not a guarantee that he will stay with you forever. Of course you will not realize this now, but eventually. You might carry a torch for him, for as long as you live, but eventually, when time passes, you will laugh with these memories and you might even call yourself dumb in a few occasions. Most of all, tell yourself, you are a lot better than that girl he choses, and a lot greater than you ex. Focus on what makes you happy. And if he comes back, don't accept him, The mere fact he did this to you, means he could do it again regardless the promises he makes! Leave some ';LOVE'; and RESPECT for yourself. So when ';THAT'; person leaves, you have some left and it will help you carry on and stand up. Give yourself the respect and pride you deserve. For now, be strong, remove everything that reminds you of him. and show him that you are strong --even if you see him and the his new girl together.
Heal yourself, don't be in a hurry to jump into another relationship. Focus on work and enjoy life. Spend the Holidays with your family. IF he calls, don't talk to him. There is really no reason for you to be entertaining him, after what he did. He is just trying to clear his conscience with what he did to you, and after all the help you gave him. If your going to cry , cry like it will never end.. then stop.. pick up the pieces and move on. Start picking up the pieces by healing yourself. Make your pain your strength. AGAIN,
Be Happy, enjoy life and stay close with your friends and family. LOVE YOURSELF! God bless..
Oh hunny i am sorry time that is the only thing that does it but keeping busy and filling your time with freinds and family that love you make it easier
people say time will heal the wound, thats only partly true. keep busy with life, make goals and strive to achieve them, things will eventually come around. just sitting around thinking time will jus heal the wound doesnt work. Ive tried it and it took me years to get over it.
shag his best mate!
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