What one must do inorder to cope up with first heartbreak?how to move on?

My partner and I broke up a year ago and until now I haven't move on yet.I still cry evryday/nyt..I always ask for a second chance that we'll be together again eventhough he made a mistake to me.. I still accepted him again.The reason for the break up is a third party.He found somebody new..But that was when we where still together..I still want him very much but he keeps on ignoring my phone calls.. I just dont know how to handle this..I hear a lot of advices and comments from my friends but i resists all they have told me..I still love this guy.. Hope that this cud be answered by some concerned people out there..What one must do inorder to cope up with first heartbreak?how to move on?
I am right there with you. We weren't together as long as you were and it still hurts me terribly. We were together for a year and a half when he broke up with me. Not only did I not see it coming at all, it was the crappiest day to break up with me. It was the day after my graduation and the day of my 18th birthday. I don't cry everyday, but in the last week, I have cried more than I have in the last month. He never really gave me a reason, which is what really kills me. In fact, the last month that we were together, it was one of the best months we'd had in a while. It was so bizarre that it happened because we were so happy that last month. I have been wondering how to move on, too. I am going to college in less that a month and although I can't help it, I feel like I am running away from my problem, even though I am not. I still love him, too, and I would take him back, I know it. They say that you never forget your first love, and I think that is why we are taking it so hard. But there will be others, there are more fish in the sea. There is also someone out there who is more compatible with you than he was, even though it is hard to believe it. We just need to stay strong, and say that if he doesn't love us the way that we are, he isn't worth it. Do things to keep your mind off of him, like pick up a new hobby. I picked up jogging. Now when I am jogging and he sees me, he wants to talk to me. One day, I was jogging and he stopped to talk to me and he was like, so, do you have abs of steel now, and I was like, wouldn't you like to know. I think he was kinda hurt that I wouldn't let him see or touch, but why does he deserve to, right? So do something for you, something that you didn't have time to do when you were with him, just to keep your mind off of him. Join the local gym, who knows, you might meet Mr. Perfect there.What one must do inorder to cope up with first heartbreak?how to move on?
Time is the only thing that will help. My first love dumped me cold and I still feel the pain 16 years later, but I still hold a place in my heart for her. So will you ever get over it, NO. But the pain will ease and it will get easier.





I did find another and another and another before I found the love of my life. We have been married almost 10 years and have three beautiful children and I am very happy. BUT, I still remember my first love and the pain she caused!





Good luck and go find another and another and another!

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