right now i'm in so much pain and desperate for answers, i've resorted to using yahoo answers. unfortunately my circle of friends have not been involved deeply as i have, so they don't have any experience to back their advice.
my gf/fiance just broke up with me 2 weeks ago after 7 years of being together. just a couple of months ago she was talking about getting married, picket fence and all. i considered her the love of my life (still do, unfortunately), and right now it's tearing me apart so bad, i've only had 2 hours of sleep per day, lost appetite, life just lost it's appeal etc. (not suicidal, thanks for the concern though)
she hasn't given me any solid reason on why she broke up with me, fell out of love has been mentioned, (third party probably), but the reason right now for me is irrelevant.
what i'm asking for from you guys, do you have any personal stories on how you cope with a deep break up? how did you go about it and when does the hurting stop?How do you cope with a bad break up? personal SUCCESS stories would be nice...?
it is sooooo hard, i feel for you.
i hear you have to focus on yourself and do whats good for you. read books, watch movies, go out with friends, join a gym, take a class, go for walks, visit family. get a puppy :o)
i am 50 and im in the same boat, i dont sleep much as it is and hurting so bad makes it even harder to sleep or eat.
wish i had better advice.How do you cope with a bad break up? personal SUCCESS stories would be nice...?
take one day at a time. get some sleep and do what you need to do for yourself.
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I was with my b/friend ofonly 2 years and he broke up with me out of the blue without a proper explanation. I was lost and didnt know what to do with myself but slowly i started to keep myse;f occupied to keep him off my mind. Going out with the girls more often; getting involved with family do's; sports and gym. After about 2 months; i found myself doing these things because i enjoyed them. I wasn't doing things to destract myself . Love takes time; it really does but trust me in the end everything works out for the best.
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You are right about another guy. That is the same that happened to me when I was in college. My high school boyfriend followed me to college and promptly started cheating with a girl in my same dorm building. We always talked about getting married. I thank God I found out now and not 15 years later. I could have been married to him with a couple of kids and a devastated life then! Now I'm happily with a great guy and we are going to get married next year. I see that bum and am so grateful I'm not stuck with him. You think about it. And you know the best revenge? Being happy. She expects you to be sad. Start tomorrow and be happy you found out now and not years down the road.
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