We were together for a year and 3 months, and we knew everything about each other.. we were very close. He was my first real relationship..but it always felt more like puppy love to me.. i guess that first real relationship where you learn whats its like. We always had problems and it got to a point where we were doing nothing but arguing and we broke it off...he wanted me back shortly after but I refused. I just knew it wasnt a healthy relationship, and i now realize that i wasnt in love with him. After the break up, I met a new guy that I grew intense feelings for in a short time but it didnt work out. But ive realized that i can find that passionate true love that im looking for, even if its not with the next guy i meet.. it will be somewhere down the line. I guess I miss having someone there all the time to do stuff with.. like if theres a new movie i wanna see, me and my ex always did that together.. now its really weird being alone... dont get me wrong, i have friends, but its not the same... my friends are not there 24/7 like me and my ex were... so how i cope with this feeling of being lonely because im not in a relationship? Also, more than anything right now, all I long for is to fall in love... but ive also heard after a breakup is when you are most vulnerable... how do i cope with these feelings of loneliness and wanting to fall in love so badly?After a break up, how do I cope with feelings of loneliness and wanting SO BAD to fall in love ?
Hang out with girlfriends, tell them you're sad and need a really good time ;)
Goodluck
long hairaurora
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