Does anyone have any suggestions on how to cope with a break up? I'm desperate.?

She meant a lot to me. I find out after we've been together for a month that she has been lying to me about how she feels about me. In other words, she doesn't/didn't love me like she said she did.Does anyone have any suggestions on how to cope with a break up? I'm desperate.?
Well you can't make her care for you . You know what they say look for another woman and fill every moment of your time.Does anyone have any suggestions on how to cope with a break up? I'm desperate.?
Lucky you, to have her out of your life in only a month. Liars like that don't come around every day, so don't think this sets a precedent for future relationships. This was a betrayal, though. Sounds like you have your act together to have let her go rather than try to hang on and convince her to love you. You deserve much better. When I feel like you do, I always find that tomorrow is better. Always. The betrayal will make you question yourself, but she was not with you for pure reasons. When you feel sorry for her that she is a liar and probaly will have a miserable life, then you are cured.
';...after we've been together for a month'; A MONTH. How pathetic are you? What are you 12? Someone that low on the evolutionary scale should have been happy they actually had a girlfriend hell having someone say hi to you sounds like it should have been the high point in your life. Just go pop some pills or cut your self a little more emo boy.
Be happy that this came out sooner than later. Now, find some hobbies, get out the house, take a walk. Yes, it will take time to get over her and that is okay. You will find someone else even better! Don't let this take over your life that is where you can make a big mistake. Talk to yourself about it. Talking to myself helps me. Talk to a friend. Talking to someone who listens and gives good feedback always helps me!
First of all, you have to come to the realization that this relationship is in the past. In my experience, it takes time to get past a relationship.
Aww first of all im so sorry that you have to go thru that. all i can say is try to get involved in day-to-day activities to keep your mind off her and know you'll be ok.
find a rebound person, or excercise
First of all, be thankful that she did this after only a short month together. She could have wasted several years of your life, and yes, there are truly people out there who are that cruel. You need to concentrate on what makes you happy. Is there anything you've wanted to do? Take a vacation, join a dating service, visit a church? Do something for you and it helps to take your mind off of her. You'll be all right. I promise.
Ahhhh sweetheart breakups suck.....Everyone has to cope in a different way ...my boyfriend of three years dumped me and I felt like I was gonna die .........My best piece of advice is to smile hang out with people that make you laugh listen to some music none of that sad **** either just a good upbeat song is proven to lift to your spirits.....It sucks right now but I'm sure your a good person and someone will love you back and give you what you give them


EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON keep your head up soldier





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Love...? A month?.... Go indoor rock climbing! Great people and good place to meet someone solid.
Don't become bitter, and just try to let everything go. Don't go out on another date for awhile. Hang out with your friends, and try to have some fun,
Cut your hair first. Then we'll talk.
Same thing happened to me a year ago!! except he ended up leaving me to date my best friend.





So heres what I did. I took everything that reminded me of him and i put it all in a box and put it away where i couldn't see it. that way i couldn't be reminded of him non-stop while trying to get over him.





As well i started writing poetry to get it all. i dont know if that is actually something you would do but it helped me out alot.





Also try seeing someone else. but let them know that you are not looking for commitment because you have just been hurt. But it is also a good idea to surround yourself with ppl ( most likely friends) so you never have to deal with the times that you are alone and have nothing better to do except think about it all.





I also watched alot of tv because it was an easy way to escape from the reality of it all. basically it helped me not to think about it.





Crying helps as well. unless its not your thing.


But its okay to cry in private.
Hi Mathias.





I am providing a link to a university website that has some good suggestions for dealing with a break-up. This is professionally written, so it could probably help you more than I can.





Here's the link:





http://www.utdallas.edu/counseling/selfh鈥?/a>





I hope it has helpful information for you.
its not her fault if she ended up not loving you. most people dont know whar love is, so dont blame her.





next, stay single for a while. it'll help your confidence and independence flourish. dont be desperate for a girl! they can notice a confident guy from a lonely guy.
You should always be suspicious of girls that tell you they love you after less than a month ... anyway, dont call or talk to her that just makes things worse. Try hanging out with other people and myabe finding a rebound girl to get your mind off of her.
';They say that breaking up is hard to do';


A month....move on and find some one new.
%%% Chocolate, lots and lots of chocolate! =( sorry but your probably better off anyways. %%%
Well, hopefully you can take comfort in the fact that you've learned something, and you will be more capable of picking a more trustworthy partner now.
dude friggen just get over it. move on with life
u had nothing 2 begin with, therefore, u lost nothing.





i know it's hard 2 believe, but that's wat happened.
Consider you self worth, your self vaule. She wasn't worth it. Say thank you for the pain, it has made me stronger, and next time I will not let me guards down so quickly.
dammn that suxs well try to get over it i mean theres really nothing that can get the pain away quick it well be gone dont worry i mean just keep your self distractid yeah sorry cheer up
just relax and take a deep breath


it happens to everyone many times


you will eventually find someone better


i kno u think u never will find someone like her again


and ur rite


u'll find someone better
Chocolate, ice cream, and Dr. Pepper





Or all of them put together