How to cope after a break up?

i accidently fell in love with a jerk


I felt so happy with him, but he always hurt me emotionally


He started to ignore me, i was so upset


I began to cry everyday, hours and hours..


I really thought he would be with me forever..


We have been through everything, we even almost had a baby


After ignoring me for such a long time he told his brother he didnt wanna be with me anymore.. and that i was annoying


I was thinking ';what a pssy';, not even man enough to tell it to my face


Im just so heart broken right now.. i really loved him...


it was 8 months ..


im 16 btw.





I just feel so depressed, even though i know its for the better..


Yea.. he was my first love..


Every morning i think, he use to lay right here next to me, and i wold kiss his cheek while he's sleeping, now i cant even do that..


And at night i have no one to goodnight to, no one to tell them they mean the world to me.. that ii love them with all my heart..


It;s just all gone


I'm just wondering how long it would take to move on..to forget all these memories..


How am i suppose to deal with this.. =(How to cope after a break up?
Save the drama for your mama.How to cope after a break up?
Well I made the same mistake of falling in love with a jerk too. But, I am 17 about to turn 18. I didn't go that long with him like baby, goodnight and stuffs.





I feel sorry for you really from inside, but you went long with this guy and I am unable to give you some advice that I went through because you are having a baby of his now.





Never mind, I am thinking I am in your place and giving you this advice. Think what gives you happiness in life, him, his baby or being alone. If it is him that's hurting you then you know he is not fit for your life so you should eliminate him from your heart, that's the best medicine ever, if he is a heart painer then he is surely no right for anyone. If you are good and you know that then you will be able to remove him from your head. Do what gives you happiness and satisfaction. Good luck.