Help! How can I cope with a break up? I just broke up with a bf of almost 2 years.?

I am very embarrassed to admit that he was a married man.I am not making excuses, but he caught me at a very low and needy time in my life. An ex was stalking me even at my place of work, and he was one of the supervisors. He helped me get back on my feet and put me through school and move to a better place. I am going to graduate from nursing school next month. Of course he told me the classic 'bs' lines about being unhappy in his marriage, and that I was the 'one true love of his life' which I fell for. I really, truly loved and cared for him, but his wife has found out and this is the end...It is extremely painful, please do not be judgemental. Are there support groups for women in my same situation that anyone knows of? These are the last weeks before graduation. I need to concentrate on my remainig requirements and my upcoming board exams. None of my few friends know of my affair, and I don't really want to disclose this at this point. I am truly in so much pain!Help! How can I cope with a break up? I just broke up with a bf of almost 2 years.?
You should not blame yourself for being lied to. Yes he was a friend and helped you along the way by making you believe in yourself and motivating you to further your education. Now you are about to graduate and make a future for yourself. Think of it as a lesson in life. He lied to you about leaving his wife. Chances are he never was but the situation you two had was convenient for him. You gave him what he gave you, friendship without any questions or pressure. He gave you what you needed to succeed and you have. If nothing else comes of your relationship at least you have a future to go on and a career he helped you build. Its hard to let go of things especially things we never really had in the first place. He probably feels the same way but if he truly wants to be with you the issue with his wife would not be a problem for him. Accept it for what it is and call it a day. Look out for yourself and do not let it stop you from living for what it is in life you have accomplished.Help! How can I cope with a break up? I just broke up with a bf of almost 2 years.?
you knew what you were geting yourself into, you knew that he was married and that he still is married after 2 years. that wasnt fair to his wife, how would you like to be in her shoes. my best advice for you is to cut your loses and move on, he has helped you threw some hard times but thats over now. you need time to heal, stop talking to him and move on.
Marriage %26amp; Divorce?
i did not read your long *** question - all i got to say - is suck it up - and move on - dont be a crybaby =)
hun lessoned learned...married men hardly ever leave and you wont be the last...They always give the classic bs lines and some women fall for it..I am sorry he put you through it as well as his wife.


YOU WILL BE OKAY..think about it was he REALLY worth it?? I mean honestly..he cheated on his wife..he is a liar and a complete idiot...dont be upset over some dork like that...rise above it hold your head high and think to yourself I AM GLAD YOUR OUT OF MY LIFE!





now smile!
get into your studies real hard. I mean REAL hard. study as much as you possibly can. This will not only help you prepare for your graduation but also distract you from your pain.


I'm in the same situation my relationship has dropped from a high cliff, I don't have the strength and time to be thinking about it and working on it so what I do is spend all my time on studies for my upcoming final exams (and on answering your question of course ;o).





Good luck
Well I don't want to make this answer too long, but I understand your emotions right now.





I had the same thing happen to me about 10 yrs ago.


The guy fed me the same b.s. how his wife didn't understand him, everyone was against him, how he was so glad to finally have someone like me to be with who understood him. bla bla bla.





7 years later I dumped his a$$ and then I felt guilty for 3 years about the whole thing. He manipulated his wife his family and after I saw him again 3 yrs later I found out he was a predator. He did this to many women, I wasn't the only one. His wife divorced him and I don't blame her. He played women for 30 years+ of his life.





Get over him, don't allow yourself to EVER go back to him, don't think you will ever have a relationship with him even if he were divorced because he isn't the same man.





I would just let this go, and enjoy your FREEDOM from this troll.





My guy also helped me by flying me to meet him, tried to pay for a car, help me settle.. and they do it so you feel close to them, it's a TOTAL manipulation. If you didn't give s*x, he wouldn't have bought all that for you. He made you ';think'; he was ';taking care of you'; and it was just to make sure you wouldn't leave.