Hi, i'm 15 and my boyfriend of 7months and me have broken up. It isn't the first time. he says we will get back together and that we are ';technically'; still together but he is already moving on to other girls (many others). We still talk everyday and he continues to tell me how much he loves me. It seems like we used to be perfect and now its beginning to be way to hard for me to cope with the pain. I know that i'm very young and that this shouldn't be facing me so much, but i have began thinking of suicide. I have never felt this depressed in my entire life. I just can't take it anymore. I mean words cannot express of how much i truly loved this boy. He was my best-friend, my first boyfriend, my first love, my first everything. Please help me, i really need ';good'; advice on this.How does a 15 year old girl cope with a bad break-up that's ended after 7 months? ?
Oh you'll remember him always. The trick is to learn how to take your feelings back. Sounds unrealistic? Say it out loud (that you aren't IN LOVE with him anymore). You can't be together anymore. You can't just ';take a vacation'; from true love.
Talking to him everyday is killing your spirit. How can he just decide to be with other girls - with your permission.
';technically'; together is a sorry excuse to run around on you and meanwhile he telling the other girls that he doesn't have a girlfriend.
It will hurt. It always hurts really bad.
Later on, though, you'll start to see that there's so much out there and a lot of beautiful man that will treat you a lot better.
Don't kill yourself and miss out on a beautiful life you could have. Be beautiful and show him what he could've had.How does a 15 year old girl cope with a bad break-up that's ended after 7 months? ?
She gets over it, realizes shes immature and needs to also realize she won't remember this guy in 10 years.
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you sound like me, when i was your age... sucky situation but the previous answer was right... get over it... from my experience i hung around way to long before i realized that i was just ';the other one'; you know the one that he KNOWS is wrapped around his finger and when he's tired of that girl he can still get some lovin from you... stick around and you'll probably always be the mistress/sancha... you don't need him, use him for whatever you need him but keep your heart out of the relationship until you meet the ONE that deserves your heart.. He isn't the one MOVE ON
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