Monday, August 16, 2010

Ok post-break up, what do i do?

I've just broken up with a guy, and I want a magic happy pill... Unfortunately there is none. I duno why, but every waking moment I feel the need to desperately DO something to distract myself.... Watch episodes of something one after the other like a maniac (in this case Lost :-p) then if I don’t have plans for the night or weekend I start to feel almost panicky and like what the hell do I do. The problem is partly that im living in another country at the moment on my own, and most of my friends have gone cos its end of erasmus (study year abroad), so I have few people to contact and hang out with now. what do I dooooo? I kind of want to go home, but I also don’t want to give up and go home cos of a guy, cos I love this city (its barcelona). So how do I cope with break up and what do I do? Any advice? I cant stay friends with the guy, I have to cut him off. Helppp before I go insaneOk post-break up, what do I do?
I think you are doing what needs to be done. Lost DVDs have helped many a person through a breakup. Don't get all panicky - make this an opportunity to get to know yourself and like spending time with yourself. You sound like you are doing OK. Time heals all wounds and all that jazz - cliches are annoyingly cliché - yet true.Ok post-break up, what do I do?
I would stay at home relax and just keep yourself busy watching t.v or whatever for a little and later when you feel better go out and find stuff to do but for now just take it easy.
Wow! Bummer! Take in the beach,,you never know who you might meet! You must have the personal drive to be upbeat when facing adversity. You can do it! Best to 'ya! ;-)=
You live in Barcelona, home of some of the most handsome men on the planet! Get up, fix yourself up, and go out to a club or something and meet someone else. It doesn't sound like you are happy on your own, but you're all isolated right now, so you have to do something to make yourself happy!


You don't have to do anything serious, just date. Give someone a chance to cheer you up. Have fun!
Only time heals...





In the meantime, get out of the house... Find some new friends. See movies, visit new places, try new things... Try to live your life. The absolute worst thing you can do is just sit at home and dwell on the subject... Maybe you'll even meet a new guy at some point while you're out having fun.





Live your life and have fun doing it! Life is really too short to be depressed...





Good luck.

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