Help me cope with losing Corey...what helps you get through a break up?

3 years and poof gone. i just need some help thinking of ways to deal. we are friends but thats making it hard too. i dont want to not be friends with him...probably wont see him for a while just cause its hard right now. how do you get your mind off of your ex you love right after you break up?Help me cope with losing Corey...what helps you get through a break up?
Allygirl,





Do what your heart tells you. YOU were given a life for a reason. You do not need to know what other peoples advice for a relationship, you once had, is. That is like you reading a book and someone coming in and telling you not to continue yourself but listen to their version of the end. You do what you feel is best, I am friends with my girl who I recently broke up with and I still love here. What you gotta say is, what do I want for myself and do that. If not you will become even more confused in your life of love. The thing I am doing to cope with losing her is think of all the good things she gave me through my time with her. Not material things. But more life goals for myself, happiness I never thought I could experience with someone else and any other things that make you smile. I hope this helps. take care Allygirl.





Croftman86Help me cope with losing Corey...what helps you get through a break up?
first of all don't be friends this friend thing is baloney, you can't be friends because in a break up one is hurting much more than the other in this case you, and you'll need time lot's of time and lot's of tears but it will end the hurt will go away and your heart will feel less broken but with time and we all have ours no rush
1st thing you are not helping yourself with is staying friend with him now, am not saying loose contact with him, but you need to be away for sometime, try to do things you love, to have some changes in your life, and most important is to stop trying to find answers to questions in your head about why and what happened ( in case you have these questions) cause this will keep you living in the same circle... good luck.. give it sometime.. too many things might happen..
It just takes time; and when somebody tells you that, it makes you want to scream because somehow you've got to get from point A to point B. The best way to do that is to cut off all contact; don't make any phone calls,drive-bys, etd. Then start seeing someone else; doesn't have to be serious; just pick ANYBODY. don't be picky. Just having the relationship will help you get over him.
no one can really give you advice. its gonna suck for a while. it'll get better