How can I cope with this break-up?

Urgent! I've broken up with my girlfriend today after a run of fall outs over the month. I'm going totally demented trying to cope with it. We are perfectly matched personalities but I kept changing my mind over moving in with her and committing to a future with. She's 30 and I'm 23 and I felt a bit like I wanted more space. Now I'm refusing to accept the break up and I'm thinking of ways to win her back. She doesn't want to keep getting hurt by my indecision thoush and is refusing to allow me back. I'm going insane because I don't know how to handle this situation. I want her and all the happiness back. Has naybody got nay advice?How can I cope with this break-up?
you are at different stages in your lives, and are too different to work. you are feeling out of your comfort zone, it will get easier. your ex is probably at a stage where she needs more than you can give. accept that it is better for both of you and separate on good terms. the writing was on the wall for this relationship ages ago if you have been rowing for months, you've only been together six months.How can I cope with this break-up?
she want you to commit and stop messing her round.


unless your ready for this relationship it won't work even if you do get back together.


go out with the lads and get hammered.


what you haven't told us is how long you have been together. that will help my advice





edit: six months isn't long to even think of commitments like moving in together.


look move on it wasn't ment to be. go out and have fun with the lads for a bit.


or be a girl and stay home eat chocolate ice cream and cry till you can't cry anymore.
she needs to be patient. why does she NEED you guys to live together right now. she should want to wait until you are ready. if she makes you feel guilty and you end up doing it to stay together you will end up breaking up and you feel feel that she trapped you. tell her how much you do love her and you want to be with her but that is a big step that you aren't quite ready for. if she can't understand that then she is being selfish and you should move on.