How do you cope after a break up?

I was with him for over two years, every day. It's like I don't know how to live without him, anymore. How can I make this easier for myself? I need some good answers please. Thank you.How do you cope after a break up?
Two years is a long time! And I send you my sympathies that you had to end the relationship. If you feel that you don't know how to live without him anymore, then why did you two break up?





Because you haven't provided any details on why the break up happened, we can only help you on what you ask for - how to move on.





Some people will recommend that you seek a new boyfriend. But that's just simply covering up what you are feeling inside - trying to fill in the gaps in your heart. You are practically using the new guy.





You could try removing physical objects that remind you of him, such as things that he may have given you. It will be pretty hard, I imagine - and you will probably shed tears. But you must be very strong. You must learn to move on with your life!





Keep in mind that life is just full of defeats and triumphs. While this event was a colossal negative impact in your life, you must work arduously on obtaining the triumphs that are waiting in your life. Stand up, dust yourself off, grab a hold of something, and move forward.





Life has too many things for you to just dwell in whatever has happened. Learn from any mistakes that you may have done, apply the knowledge to your everything life, and battle for the victory.





Look for support from your family and friends. They will offer shoulder for you to cry on. Have times of crying and let it all out. Just releasing all of your heart can make you feel better. And after that, your burdens will be wiped away once you commit yourself to moving forward.





Don't think that the world has come to a stop because of a break up. Almost everyone experiences it and they know they must move on from it. You must do the same. The world will not halt for you to just dwell in the past, so you must get on your feet.





Be strong in everything that you do, have faith that good things will come, and find support from those around you.





You can lead a wonderful life; you have so much potential.





Best,





BrianHow do you cope after a break up?
The worst part is the first few weeks... but think about the circumstances... did he break it off all of a sudden, was he acting weird, was he argumentative. These are things to look for... You are young, and you are beautiful and most of all you still have a life to live. Get back out there find a wonderful guy who will treat you like the princess you are and is not demanding and it things happen in the future with him let them happen but, don't just gloat over this one love... there are so many guys out there that a wonderful and would want someone like you... I do wish you well and I wish you a true love that will knock your socks off... Grant M
It's a chapter in your book of life, try being married to your high school sweetheart, come home early one day and she's in bed with your best friend and we had a 1 year old at the house. There is nothing to make this go away except time and doing your best to move on. You can try and think positive things like better now then when and if we were to have been married but only time, friends and family will help, mostly time I'm sorry to say. Stay positive with your own life and keep your head up!
I was with my ex for over 3 years. He left me for another girl. I begged him back like an idiot and cried myself to sleep everyday. I called and called and he never answered. He just completely let me go. I felt like I couldn't live without him either but I did. I was single for 10 months then I met another guy. The best thing to do is go out and have fun with your family and friends, or people that you trust and can count on. Let yourself go and open up your heart. Remember that you will find someone else. Give yourself time to be single. It sucks being alone but its ok right now. You just got out of a relationship. Don't rush into another relationship too fast. Be strong and live your life.
Best way I've found out is to erase that person out of your life. Delete them off myspace, facebook, etc. Don't respond to their calls or text messages and try and find someone else. Nothing helps like meeting someone else!





Good luck!