Monday, August 9, 2010

How to Cope with a break-up?

Are there simple ways to get begin to get over someone?





What have you done? What are you doing??





please aim me just to talk if you would like...i need company..or just a conversation if anything..





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thank youHow to Cope with a break-up?
Absolute best thing to do is keep busy. The busier you are the better, because then you replace the void he leaves in your life and you dont have to think about him. I think the best way to do this is by going to the gym. You are improving yourself, making you feel good about yourself, and you get to show him exactly what hes missing:)How to Cope with a break-up?
It's never simple, especially not if its your first. It gets easier later.





Try and surround yourself with loving people. One, they will keep your mind off the break up. Two, they will help to validate you and remind you how wonderful you are, and how loved you are, when your ego has just been trampled on.





Try to keep yourself busy, if you can't see your friends. Don't mope It doesn't help.





Sometimes its hard to feel beautiful and attractive after a break up. So, go out and do something nice for yourself. Get a new hairstyle, or new clothes. Something that will allow you to decompress and maybe have renewed confidence in yourself. It'll make you feel beautiful!





Keep your distance from the person. Seeing them again can make things very difficult. Emotions are high and its easy to get mixed up when you see your ex.





Try not to allow yourself to convince yourself he wants you back. It's always tempting to start thinking that way, because it makes you feel better, but if its over, its over, and you won't do any good for yourself convincing yourself otherwise. Write down why you broke up, the flaws in the relationship and reread it to remind yourself of that when you get whimsical and imagine the relationship was better than it was, or when you think you have hope again.





good luck!
I feel your pain im sorry i kno break-ups r a ***** but u will find another so dont even stress it you kno guys r like buzes miss one catch one later .................LoL not 2 sound ratchet or anything
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