How do I cope with this break-up? I work with him.?

I have been asking all of these questions about this @sshole ex bf of mine, and I have a good idea of how to distract myself... but I find myself MISERABLE at work because he is RIGHT HERE. Right around the corner....





I have been doing a GREAT job of ignoring him... and there is so much I want to say and yell about, but how in the world can I just COPE with this? This SUCKS.





We went out for four months. He is 25, I am 28. He practically cheated, lied, is shady, never honest, he texted his ex gf one day after we broke up... that he was in love with her, he loves her, he loves her so much...





I have been through enough BS in my life to know I could do better than stick around and watch a little boy play mind games with me. So I left.





he keeps apologizing, calling me ten times over the weekend, emailing me he is completely in love with me, he doesnt love her.. its not what it seems.. and why am I acting nasty. WTF.





I just have weak moments where I cant deal. help! ideas?How do I cope with this break-up? I work with him.?
You know what they say. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander.





Try to find friends and others to interests you. Keep busy. Try to do more at work to keep your mind occupied. Definitely whatever you do don't take him back! Unless you wan't to put up w/ the bullshit ! He thinks he's Mr. Big ****. Why waste your time w/ Mr. Wrong when you can have Mr. Right!





Who's cares if the lying bastards around the corner. Thats close enough to remind you of the bullshit everyday, that you had to put up w/! Let him be a reminder of why you can find better!How do I cope with this break-up? I work with him.?
Whoa! you work with him? can you get other job in differ Service? Tell him to Stop Apologizing and Leave you Alone...


Change your number, change job, or Something......
First and foremost....never date people you work with!!





BUT, with that said, you fell into the trap and now you have to deal with this guy. You are both adults, right? Just tell him straight out, look, we didn't work out and we never will, let's just leave it at that and be friendly with each other because we have to work in the same office. Ignoring probably isn't the best, even though he was a real ****** to you. Just be civil with him...it's going to be awkward seeing him around the office, but eventually after a long time it will wear off and you'll be able to be normal coworkers. But until that time comes, just suck it up. You made the choice to date someone you work with knowing that it might not work out and then be awkward and difficult.
i was with this kind of situation 5 months ago.. i requested to be transferd to another dpt.where i can't see his face.... we often met at the elevtor early morning but i ignore him completely
Since he works for the same company, what he is doing is creating a hostile work environment. You need to let the HR department know that you are uncomfortable around him due to your history together and that he is ignoring your requests to be left alone.